Thank You Sir May I Have Another?!

Let's face it, no matter how much you love them, there are times when you must put that special someone in your life in their place. There is no better way to assert your dominance over another person than to bend them over and give them a proper spanking! A quick warning/ word of advice here. This should NEVER be done out of anger.


Spanking is both fun and exciting. If you’re a man reading this, you need to make sure she is into some ass-slapping first, or she may run the other way!
Just remember that her ass is a very sensitive erogenous zone whose stimulation will make her dripping wet with excitement.
Are you new to this practice or want a few tips to improve your techniques? Read on to learn what you should and shouldn’t do! 

Tip #1 – Establish Dominant & Submissive Roles

Each spanking experience will require a dominant and a submissive partner. When you’re the one who is in charge, she will often be the one who is submissive.
The most often scenario is that she’s been a bad girl, and you are “punishing” her for just how bad she has been.

Pay attention: Discuss which one of these roles you and your partner like the best! All you need to do next is to let your imagination going at full speed with naughty thoughts and scenarios.
Always set a safe word that she will say in a case things go over her acceptable limits. This can be any word, but you must pay attention to it! Keep in mind that she can act like she desires you to stop for as long as she wants until she says a pre-agreed safe word!
Pay attention: Some couples even like to play rough and virtually force their partner into various sex techniques when they pre-agree who is going to be a dominant and who submissive.

Tip #2 - Establish a Safe Word
Safe words are imperative. Have it completely understood that once this word is used ALL action stops and without consequences.

Tip #3 – Warm Her Butt First & Gradually Increase Intensity
Instead of being too eager and start spanking her hard right away, you want to take it slow at the beginning. Swat her butt lightly so she feels only a soft stinging sensation!
This will allow her cheeks to get used to the spank and act as a safeguard. After a few slaps, you can increase your strength gradually.
Pay attention: Increasing the force behind each subsequent slap gradually will give her an opportunity to tell you whether you are punishing her too hard or not!

Tip #4 – Build The Anticipation Between Each Spank

Slapping her ass too fast can cause a lot of a discomfort that will turn her off in the end. Instead, you want to take a break between each swat.
Let’s look at an example:

1. Give her 2 or 3 spanks in a row.
2. Kiss her back, rub her lady parts.
3. Then slap her ass again.

Keep in mind: Although it can be very erotic and fun, when you add in kissing her back, rubbing her lady parts or talking dirty, it will bring this whole experience to a new level!

Tip #5 – Try Various Hand Techniques for Different Sensations

Spanking is an art. In fact, the position of your hand and the way you hold it can make a big difference. You want to slap her good, but you also want to change up your techniques to make it a little more fun.
Therefore, you should try these:

1. Cupped palm with fingers together – This is an excellent way to increase the noise produced during a spank without actually increasing the level of pain.
2. Flat palm with relaxed fingers – A flat palm with relaxed fingers makes more of a slapping noise, and it also adds to the pain level of a swat. This is where the real stinging sensation will be felt!

Keep in mind: Alternating between these techniques is fun. Starting with first and moving into the second works great if you’re trying to build up anticipation or warm up her butt gradually.

Tip #6 – Alternate Between Swats, Gentle Caresses & Rubbing

Making spanking exciting and a fun experience for her is essential! Therefore, you need to give her a mixture of soft and stinging sensations.
A few great ways to do this is by:

• Swats or slaps – This is the standard spank we’re used to. You can experience with different techniques for extra fun.
• Caresses – Grab her ass and caress it. This is great for fun and harder caresses can even get her into a naughty mood.
• Rubbing – From behind, you’ll be able to rub her butt and vagina. Make this a good way to cool-down or use it as a way to turn her on really hard!

Keep in mind: Always alternate between various sensations to make your game more unpredictable and exciting for her.

Tip #7 – Use Household Items & Special Toys for More Fun

Now, if you’re really into spanking and want to get serious, you can do so with style! You can use either professional toys or even just ordinary household items.
These include:

• Paddles
• Whips and floggers
• Long wooden spoons and spatulas
• Belts for more rough play
• Wet towels (this will hurt)
• Plastic rulers (be careful these hurt a lot)
• Hair brushes with long wooden ends

Keep in mind: If you like dominatrix play, you can also add in leather outfits, ball gags or handcuffs to make your night even more exciting!

Tip #8 – Add Dirty Talk to Your Repertoire

Finally, the trick you can use to make spanking a much better experience for your partner is to add a bit of a dirty talk into the mix. You need to realize that you’re “punishing” her for a reason – to be erotic and dominant!
Obviously, she’s been bad, so whisper into her ear something dirty! If she’s submissive, you can also throw in words such as “you like it rough” or “is that what you want?”

*Courtesy of StalionStyle.com